[She. . . has had a day, so she's just going to be blunt.]

Let's dispense with the well-wishes. You want to know in case the same happens again. As any of us would.

[Douman. Has never been anything but polite and friendly with her, but she doesn't have a strong sense he's going to have a sleepless night fretting about her mental health.]

I won't take offense if we talk on those terms.